¡UNA MUJER COMPLETA!
La falta de amor y de reconocimiento en las mujeres como asi tambien la falta de valorizacion y agradecimiento, de cariño, de mimo y de otras ternuras y gestos nos hacen sentir poco valiosas, poco importantes...
Pero la falta de pareja en la mujer hace que sienta como que no vale lo suficiente para tenerla, entonces su autoestima se ve dia a dia lastimada y deja de reconocerse como una gran mujer para sentirse sola y hasta incluso abandonada...
Siente por momentos que la felicidad del gran amor no es posible y en esa confusion en un determinado momento se prepara para seguir estando sola toda la vida.
Y no es asi...Todo llega en el momento justo, ni antes ni despues. Todo se logra pero es importante aprender a quererse, a asumirse y a sentirse bien con una misma.
Si logramos estar bien en soledad, si una a una todas las partes de nuestro cuerpo crean una armonia perfecta, si dejamos de lado ciertas obsesiones para dar paso a la vida y no esperamos, solo nos dejamos llevar y no buscamos, solo abrimos el corazon y el alma dispuestas a dar lo mejor de nosotras...Todo aparece, se encuentra, sin ninguna explicacion logica... porque si...porque se dio...porque de pronto alguien detuvo la mirada en nosotras y en esos ojos vimos un camino por el que transitariamos nosotros... los dos... luego...
No somos menos si estamos sin un compañero... Tal vez podramos tener muchos y no ser felices con ninguno...
No somos menos porque en este momento estamos sin pareja, o porque un hombre nos abandono...
No somos menos si habiendo amado mucho un hombre no supo valorar ese amor y se marcho...
No... Somos importantes en la vida, en la lucha diaria, en el abrazo, solo merecemos amores de verdad, de aquellos que nos contienen, que nos respetan, que nos llevan de la mano pero que siempre y en todo momento nos permiten ser, sentir y crecer...
Hay diferentes tipos de amor que muchas veces no lo son... parecen serlo nada mas...
Hay personas que tienen pareja pero se sienten tan solas y vacias como si no las tuvieran...
Hay otras que por no esperar deciden caminar al lado de alguien equivocado y esa persona en su egoismo no permitira que se aleje de ese camino el suyo, el propio aun sabiendo que no la hace feliz...
Hay personas que sostienen matrimonios o noviazgos ya destruidos por el simple hecho de pensar que estar solos es dificil e inaceptable...
Hay personas que deciden ocupar un segundo lugar tratando de llegar al primero pero ese viaje es duro, incomodo y los llena de dolor y de abandono.
Pero hay otras personas que estan solas y viven y brillan y se entregan a la vida de la mejor manera...
Personas que no se apagan al contrario cada dia se encienden mas y mas. Personas que aprenden a disfrutar de la soledad porque las ayuda a acercarse a si mismas, a crecer y a fortalecer su interior...
Esas personas son las que un dia sin saber el momento exacto ni el por qui se encuentran al lado de una persona que las ama con verdadero amor...y se enamoran de una manera magica.
Una mujer completa no necesita muletas...
Vive y se entrega dia a dia y cuando se enamora se entrega a ese amor sin dejar de ser ella misma.
por que el permitir que tus desiciones sean tomadas por alguien mas es ser esclava del infortunio y la
amamargura vive, respira , deja vivir y se feliz recuerda que tu companero llegara a ti y sentiras la paz
que jamas habias sentido porque habras aprendido a ser una verdadera mujer una mujer completa que se ama y se respeta y se hace respetar pues si te amas a ti misma nunca mas permitiras estar en segundo termino siempre sereas primero tu luego tu y al ultimo tu solo asi podras ver el mundo con tus propios ojos
RECUERDA QUE EL AMAR ES UNA DESICION MAS NO UN SENTIMIENTO Y SI DESIDES AMAR A LA PERSONA CORRECTA SERAS FELIZ AUNQUE ESA PERSONA CORRECTA ERES TU MISMA ......................
the awakening
A time comes in your life when you finally get it when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out "Enough!"
Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through new eyes. This is your awakening.
You realize it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change or for happiness, safety, and security to come galloping over the next horizon.
You come to terms with the fact that you are neither Prince Charming nor Cinderella. And that, in the real world, there aren't always fairy-tale endings, or beginnings for that matter. And that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with you and in the process, a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.
You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate, or approve of who or what you are, and that's OK. They are entitled to their own views and opinions.
And you learn the importance of loving and championing yourself and in the process, a sense of new found confidence is born of self-approval. You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you, or didn't do for you and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected.
You learn that people don't always say what they mean or mean what they say, and that not everyone will always be there for you, and that it's not always about you.
So you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself and in the process, a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance.
You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and overlook their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process, a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness.
You realize that much of the way you view yourself and the world around you is as a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your psyche.
And you begin to sift through all the junk you've been fed about how you should behave, how you should look, how much you should weigh, what you should wear, what you should do for a living, how much money you should make, what you should drive, how and where you should live, who you should marry, the importance of having and raising children, and what you owe your parents, family, and friends.
You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. And you begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for.
You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with. And in the process, you learn to go with your instincts.
You learn that it is truly in giving that we receive. And that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a "consumer" looking for your next fix.
You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.
You learn that you don't know everything, it's not your job to save the world and that you can't teach a pig to sing. You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say No. You learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake.
Then you learn about love. How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations, and outcomes. And you learn that alone does not mean lonely.
You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs. You learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly Ok, and that it is your right to want things and to ask for the things you want and that sometimes it is necessary to make demands. You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity, and respect and you won't settle for less.
And you learn that your body really is your temple. And you begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin to eat a balanced diet, drink more water, and take more time to exercise. You learn that being tired fuels doubt, fear, and uncertainty and so you take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and to play.
You learn that, for the most part, you get in life what you believe you deserve and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different from working toward making it happen. More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline, and perseverance. You also learn that no one can do it all alone and that it's OK to risk asking for help.
You learn the only thing you must truly fear is the greatest robber baron of all, Fear Itself.
You learn to step right into and through your fears because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your own terms. And you learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom.
You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve, and that bad things sometimes happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions you learn to not personalize things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your prayers. It's just "life happening".
And you learn to deal with evil in its most primal state "the ego".
You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy, and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls.
You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about: a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower.
Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never, ever settle for less than your heart's desire. And you hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind. And you make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart and God by your side, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design as best you can, the life you want to live.
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